The most likely advice you can get is to take your relationship one day at a time. This is quite understandable when you consider that big things always start small and just like the acorn grows into a mighty oak tree over time, your love relationship or affair must also have its own time to develop and grow, what you want from him – a loving, romantic, pleasant, imaginative and fulfilling one.
This is a secret to building and maintaining a healthy love affair or relationship with the opposite sex.
Even though we are all in a world where we want everything and everything NOW, quick fixes, now and immediately without delay…You must learn to give your relationship time to grow today as you reap the rewards and benefits want to be in the future for a long time.
How do you take your relationship one day at a time?
1. Organization and Discipline. Both of you need to bring order to the way you run your relationship and grow your affection on top of the love and friendship you share.
That doesn’t mean you have to freeze at all. Inject some fun and excitement into the things you do while relating and interacting with one another.
Take the time to enjoy the journey and the process of making your relationship work.
2. Do you know each other. Take your time and create an opportunity to get to know and also become known to your lover, boyfriend, girlfriend, partner or spouse. Understanding each other is very important.
You need to find out what makes your friend, with whom you are in your relationship or love affair, “tick”. Share your personal dreams, goals, life ambitions, etc. and of course your expectations of your relationship together.
3. Committed work. Investing in time, money, knowledge, talents, and other valuable resources is a must if you want to enjoy your relationship and see it grow and blossom to your heart’s content.
The place to work hard and give sacrificially by using one’s self to build a healthy relationship helps a lot.
4. Understand what a relationship is. It’s all about your partner and you, your emotions, your life goals, your resources, collaboration and teamwork to name a few.
As disappointing as that may sound, many boys and girls, men and women, men and women who are involved in a romantic relationship or having an affair do NOT really understand what a relationship is all about.
That’s one of the reasons why breakups and breakups, divorces, and single parents are on the rise today. You have to be mature, responsible, and accountable to embark on an affair, or even get into a relationship at all.
Above all, you must realize that no love relationship is immune to crises, troubles, or breakups. As such, you must have a strong command of your emotions and keep them under control.
This also contributes to the need to take your relationship one day at a time. Get to know each other and don’t rush and don’t be in a hurry. Also, you can break some of the tips above into smaller processes, tasks, or tasks that you can both do together.
Everything shared above is for your consideration and digestion and should provide some useful tips and insights into what is expected of you in your relationship if you are looking to build it day by day or are just starting a love relationship or an affair with that special person.