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There are many guides online on how to get your ex girlfriend back, but when you find yourself after a relationship with an Asian girlfriend and want her back, the approach can be a little different. Hopefully this article will help you salvage your relationship and maybe teach you a thing or two about interracial love, Asian women, and yourself.
The important things first. As with any problem worth tackling, you need to approach your approach with a clear head, ready to look at things logically and not emotionally. This can be extremely difficult when you are heartbroken and in deep emotional pain. Nobody but you will know if you are ready to tackle the problem. Just be aware that if the pain is making you unable to think straight, you should put off finding a solution until a better day.
The truth is, no matter how painful a breakup was, normal people recover. Think of all the times in your life that you’ve had a broken heart. You rebounded, didn’t you? So acknowledge the fact that you are in pain, know that the pain is only in your head (your heart isn’t really broken of course, or you’ll be dead), and third, and perhaps most importantly, most of that pain, if not everything is self-pity. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, pull yourself together and move on. You’ll have to move on sooner or later anyway, so you might as well do it now.
Now that you’re thinking clearly, you have an important question to decide. Ask yourself: Do you really want to continue the relationship? Is it worth? Don’t assume that the best thing you can do right now is work on winning them back. Instead, first know if you really want her back and why. Get a piece of paper and in two columns, write down the pros and cons of the relationship with your Asian girlfriend when things were going well. We all make this evaluation of things in our lives all the time, day by day, about all things. This is how we make our decisions. In fact, we’ve gotten so used to it that we don’t pay attention anymore, and most of the things we choose to do are done by gut feeling or out of habit. Getting your girlfriend back is too important to do it this way, so writing things down makes the decision-making process that much better. It forces us to analyze more and grasp the things that matter better and more realistically.
After that, still want to find out how to get your Asian ex girlfriend back? Good. Time to work on a plan. This is where a clear head comes into play. Take out a fresh piece of paper and write down, as honestly as you can, why you think the breakup happened in the first place. It may be an important argument that signaled the end of the relationship, but there may also have been other things that led to the argument. Put on your analytical thinking cap, pretend you’re a detective examining facts to arrive at a solution. Again, be absolutely, brutally honest. Was the problem with you? Maybe the way you treat them? Or maybe the problem lies with your Asian girlfriend and the way she treats you.
Next, think of possible solutions to the problem. Think about real solutions, don’t just adapt to something you don’t like about her just to make things right. If she’s cheating on you, don’t just say ok and turn a blind eye because you think her conscience will make her stop. If you are the one cheating, don’t just say you will never do it again because deep down you know it will never work in the long run. Again, there’s a chance that not being together might be for the best.
Also think about the time frame you have to put your plan into action. In general, the longer the relationship lasted before you broke up with it, the more time you have to work things out. But don’t assume you have all the time in the world, you might as well assume that being apart really is better.
If you’re a western man, a girlfriend from a completely different society and culture can mean a profound change in attitude, a commitment to better understand how Asians think and tick and how they differ from their western counterparts. If you think you are ready to make that commitment, then you will be ready to win your Asian ex girlfriend back and make changes for the better.
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